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App & game safety

App & game safety, app by app

Most parents don't come to this asking "is the internet bad?" — they come asking one very specific question: "My kid wants Roblox / TikTok / Discord. Is it OK?"

That's the question I had too. So we did the homework on the apps and games our boys actually wanted, sat with the settings, and worked out which ones we'd allow, which ones we'd delay, and exactly what to switch on if the answer was yes. These are the honest, mum-to-mum verdicts. No app is all good or all bad — it depends on your child and how it's set up. Pick the one you're wrestling with and start there.

At a glance

Roblox
A no in our house. Lock it down hard if it's a yes in yours.
TikTok
I'd delay it. Family Pairing if your teen is already on.
Snapchat
The disappearing messages are the worry. Read before you allow.
Discord
Fine for some, risky by default. The DM and Family Centre settings matter.
YouTube
Use YouTube Kids or a supervised account, and kill autoplay.
Fortnite
Two things to lock: voice chat with strangers, and V-Bucks spending.

The full guides

Tap whichever one you're wrestling with right now.

For a lot of kids the first chat with a stranger happens inside a game, not on social media. The eSafety Commissioner's research found most Australian children who'd been contacted by someone they first met online were gaming when it happened — and only about a third of their parents knew.

Source: eSafety Commissioner

The bigger picture

Filtering, AI, ads and parental controls — it's all over on Internet Child Safety.

Internet Child Safety

Screen-by-screen setup

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